Do Empath’s and Narcissists go together like pineapple and pizza? One is sweet, delicious and good for you, the other very naughty, very bad but can also be equally delicious. The difference between pineapple and pizza is that pineapple is one of the worlds best anti-inflammatories it will take things away from you, similar to an Empath. Whereas ten slices of pizza later if your anything like me will pop your belly, will bring up a whole host of emotions and an addiction that’s so deliciously tempting you’ll wonder how you survived before its allure, just like a Narcissist.
Why are these two polar opposites so magnetically drawn to one another? Does the Narcissistic rule on planet crazy? Do they hold the matrix construct together? Can a Narcissistic ever heal from their deep fragmentation and disconnect from essence? Or are they here to evolve our soul’s expansion and the collective?
Let’s explore…
Same but different…
Empath’s and Narcissistic’s both sense what you feel, each can intuitively sense what you are thinking, feeling and they can spot your vulnerabilities like an eagle spots its prey. This is why at first a Narcissist can be very attractive because it’s like you’ve met someone who says’s what your mind is thinking and your heart is singing.
The difference is an Empath will never use your perceived weakness as their own food and a weapon to annihilate you. An Empath will want to help and will care about your pain. On the flip side, a Narcissist will use your pain to drive you insane. In some aspects, it’s an inversion of one another. One will want to piece you together the other will leave your heart fractured apart. So many will say a broken heart is where the light enters you, which could ultimately lead to you piecing your fragmented parts back together. Perhaps this is where the old saying “one man’s poison is another man’s medicine” comes from.
In that sense, I can see why some would view them the same side of the coin and it could be argued that it’s all our own perception. However, we must remember that truth is objective and there is an objective truth that there are extreme Narcissistics on this plant that are pure evil and I’m not sure they will ever heal unless they reject the archonic forces ruling them. I don’t think we should ever whitewash evil with whimsical statements such as “it’s all divine” as it negates the person who has suffered at the hands of evil traumatic parts and as such be offering care and support to victims not spiritual bypassing or toxic positivity.
However, the veil is lifting in this world at the moment and this could be argued is assisting in the evolution of our soul, and perhaps part of that evolution is we must make a stand against evil. We can all play our part in this by withdrawing our support and energy so if your favourite actor, director, musician, religious leader, political figure (the latter two are both systems of control, so you should withdraw regardless) etc has been convicted of the unforgivable then withdrawing your energy and resources from that field is playing your part in evolving the collective healing.
As previously mentioned a Narcissist will see the weak spots in other’s and exploit them for their own gain. Much of this current reality is an inversion which explains how Narcissist’s got to centre stage. How they take the positions of power in all walks of life and how they will use your pain as their power. This is why I always encourage others to turn their own pain into power so those fragmented and fractured parts can be returned home to you.
A true Narcissist doesn’t have their own independent supply of essence, so their supply of life-force is feeding from others. This is why we see high ranking individual stealing the life-force of children and why as a collective we must face the trauma of what is happening with our innocent ones instead of using love and light as a distraction, the brightest thing we can do is to face our trauma inside and out before we all end up in a Clinton body bag. This is the extreme version of Narcissism and most Empath’ s would not want to do the dark dance with this type of monster. I don’t know at this point if evil is put in this world for our soul growth or if we are in the upside-down world, my gut feeling is perhaps there is an element of both.
I will explain my theory of how narcissists are created on an astral level later. It’s important to point out that there is a difference between a true Narcissist and someone with a Narcissist part or traits and also those with mental health issues who’s symptoms (I don’t like this term but for easy of understanding I’ll use it) can be confused as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). A true Narcissist which are the “parasites that be” which run this world currently may have a very difficult time healing due to the way they are created on the astral level and perhaps they can never heal because of what run’s their show.
However, someone with a Narcissistic part which is used to protect deeper emotions such as guilt and shame can heal. Perhaps this part can transform into an empathic part once it has released the burden it has been protecting. I feel this is why so much matrix programming is pumped into encouraging peoples Narcissistic parts because the matrix feeds off unhealed trauma. The more we are engaged in constant selfies and absorbed into a me me me me culture the more the matrix can thrive. If we healed this part collectively I have a strong feeling we would be living in a completely different reality. One that would be governed by natural law and peoples soul wounds and soul purpose made a priory and our humanness and essence integrated.
With the rise of the internet, we also need to be mindful of projecting a diagnosis of NPD onto others. I have my self previously been guilty of allowing my personal pain to flood me and cast the NPD stamp onto a past partner. As I mentioned earlier there are some mental health conditions such as Borderline Personality Disorder BPD that have elements which are similar to NPD. If you research BPD you’ll find in it’s highest aspect it can be the shamanic mystic aspect of a person who can move between worlds. I know with the internet it can be easy to soothe our own pain by self-diagnosing those we have conflict and grief with, but perhaps maybe we such focus on our own healing and focus on bring our own individual light to the world.
It’s all about me.
This is another same but different aspect I’ve noticed with the Empathic and Narcissistic relationship. They both think everything is about them. Empaths, before you get hurt, read me out. I am one so I inner-stand this well. Empaths internalise nearly everything including other peoples pain. This is why an Empath must do their inner work and know themselves deeply so they don’t overburden themselves “know thy self” should be the mantra for every Empath. Know what’s yours and integrate it, know what isn’t and reject it, know what triggers you and work with it, know when you are feeling overwhelmed and give yourself permission to rest, know that you are not to blame for everything and if someone takes your heart the wrong way that its none of your business that you can stand strong regardless of what others, think, say or feel about you. Sometimes Empaths it’s not you, it’s them.
Now Narcissists also thinks everything is about them, but rather that internalise their feelings they externalise it. They often lack the emotional maturity to take responsibility for their own actions. They lack the empathic understanding to not project their stuff onto others and they use other peoples energy and pain to survive. Rather than retreat as an empath would need to do to in order to regain a sense of self and to recharge their own batteries. Other people become their battery. Their life force energy is extorted from those around them rather than from within.
This leads me on to how Empaths and Narcissistic are created. Now if you ask this question to Psychologist and Psychiatrist they will tell you that they are both created from childhood wounding. I would agree with this on some level with those who have Empathic and Narcissistic parts.
However, I feel true Empaths and Narcissists on a soul level are created differently. I feel Empaths are helper souls which are created from the divine feminine creator which then enter the matrix field as a helper being to humanity. Not a “special being’ as the new cage would heard people into believing which in itself is narcissistic, but a soul who’s gift is feeling and uses this to help others. Many beings have access to becoming a helper soul if they choose to do so. Maybe all beings do or maybe that’s my utopia thinking part-writing.
True Narcissistics, on the other hand, I feel these are created in the in-between lives area from fragmented soul beings and therefore are disconnected from the divine feminine creator energy. Perhaps they keep the matrixes construct in place and are access portals for the archonic energies currently reigning over planet earth. Some say that these beings are here to evolve humanity, on some level I can see how this can assist in helper soul, soul evolution. Do I think its right that archonic forces are ruling? Of course not. Do I think team human can take the reigns back? Yes, I do. How? Through healing, through integrating your parts in this life and beyond so we can bring the light within forward. This is why I would always say to others discern the “light beings’ outside because the divine feminine creator spark is in you not outside of you.
Humaste (the human in me honors the human in you)
Anastasia
PS I love pizza in small doses. I can also enjoy peoples narcissistic parts in small doses. What I don’t like is pineapple and pizza together whoever through that was clever.
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