For the past decade, spiritual communities and new age circles have embraced and ramped up the concept of “Twin Flames’. The notion isn’t new and has roots in many myths and spiritual traditions, with the general ideology that to progress on the spiritual path one must align and reunite with their mirror soul, their one true divine counterpart sent to rocket one another off to ascension bliss and to complete their divine mission. However for many that rocket can shoot you to the stars or plummet and burn you to the ground. Perhaps the latter is part of the process until both sparks are mature enough to handle the connection, or maybe it’s more deception used to further you from your individual soul growth.
Many helper souls, starseeds and lightworkers seek and search for their divine counterpart with the belief that they have incarnated at this time with either their mirror soul roaming the earthly planes or their divine counterpart connected in the spirit realm. The latter seems a little unfair to my romantic human side, but hey if it’s to progress on the spiritual path, surely one would do anything? Where did this idea that everyone has a Twin Flame originate? Can we really take Zeus’s word that he cut all humans in half, as truth? Are we all created in the same way? Is the twin flame movement another half-truth to keep the matrix trauma program in place? Let’s explore…
If you are familiar with my work on my YouTube channel I’ve been questioning and exploring recently if the Twin Flame movement is a sinister program to siphon our energy or a true phenomenon. Now my thinking is that perhaps it’s both and in this blog, we’ll dive a little deeper into Twin Flame creation, trauma bonding, attachment injury and how this is related to twin flame separation.
Let’s start with soul creation this is my inner-standing of soul birthing and this may change and evolve in time as my own soul and psyche expands and grows. My feeling is that helper souls incarnate from a divine feminine creator source, yes I think God is a woman. That spark of divinity is merged with an oversoul, which has it’s own plans, goals and mission.
There is a possibility at this point that the oversoul may split into two as this is needed for the soul’s purpose. However not all soul’s split and enter the earthly realms together at the same time, not all may need to or want to split. This doesn’t mean that there aren’t aspects of your soul in other realities and dimensions and the more you can integrate the more access you can have to these parts of your being and your multidimensionality.
So back to the soul journey our oversoul travels into the matrix which then has its own masculine copy of the creator spirit, who created the seven heavens and the seven hells, each with their own overlord who siphons human energy. This is why I don’t connect to any ascended masters or archangels, in my personal work and with clients.
As we travel down into this dense reality there is and in-between lives area and this is where the Non-player characters (NPC) in the matrix are created. These characters don’t have a direct oversoul and are fragments of many different souls, these tend to incarnate as psychopaths and narcissists. They don’t have an independent source of essence so it is drawn from others. If you want a deeper explanation of how this works the new series of Dark Crystal on Netflix’s depict what I’m trying to convey very well. With the overlords the Skesis feeding off the life force essence of sentient Gelfing.
Anyway back to twin flames and the question, does the soul split at the oversoul level and is the twin flame concept a true phenomenon? Do those that are twin flames then go on to receive astral interference and targeting, so they can never reunite? Or in the in-between lives area are certain helper souls targeted so they are pushed off their path and how would you know the difference? There is so much to discern with this topic and the more internal work you can do the clearer your intuition will be.
We’ve touched on the astral realms lets travel down to the human earthly realm. Many of the twin flame gurus will talk about the twin flame stages. If you’ve been swept away in this teaching you’ll be very familiar with these stages but what I’d like to focus on is the separation phase. Now the guru’s will state that the separation is a critical stage for the twin’s individual development, which sounds very plausible.
I’d like to add another view to this in that perhaps many people who believe they were in a twin flame separation phase, maybe trauma bonded and may also have some attachment injury from childhood. If this is ringing alarm bells in your mind and resonates in your gut, perhaps spend some time doing your own research on the subject. I’ll give you a brief explanation, trauma bonding is where you are bonded to your capture. You’ll often hear this referred to as Stockholm Syndrome and to some extent perhaps we all have suffered from this in the matrix. We are all on some level attached to our captures and perhaps this is why we are here.
The common misguided feature of Twin Flame teaching is there is always a runner and a chaser and that the chaser will be the more spiritual advanced of the twins. Now let think about this what does this do our minds firstly it hooks into our unhealthy side of our egos and may delude and convince the chaser that they are above the runner spiritually and that if they keep working the other person will float back into their lives and they will run away to a 5th-dimensional reality
The problem with this is two-fold in that it very cleverly tricks you into staying attached to that person when in any other breakup you’d be working through removing that attachment. Also, like many of the new age teachings which are half-truths, it tricks you into further deception by making you feel special like the “chosen’ one, the chosen 144,000 that are here to save humanity. When the truth is that individuals save themselves. I know you maybe thinking but it’s written in the bible I would question if the 144,000 is more divide and conquer master-slave programming, just as religion is. As the zen saying goes ““if you meet the Buddha on the road, kill him”.
Many of us that find ourselves in the new age often have childhood wounds that we haven’t worked through, and the new age can feel like the perfect bubble to float off and escape to. Attachment trauma occurs when we are children and our emotional needs are not met by our main caregiver. For individuals who have attachment disorder, narcissists can become very attractive and are often familiar territory. They bombard you with the love you’ve always craved then they pull it away in an oh so familiar way, so the process of working for love and chasing circles back around.
It’s very multifaceted this subject as real twin flames are targeted and interfered with as well. I’m not claiming that I know everything on this subject there is so much to learn in this universe. Any healer, teacher or guide that claims to have all the answers, I would run in the opposite direction. No one person has all the pieces to the puzzle, otherwise they wouldn’t be here.
How do you work through this trauma? With trauma bonding, you need to detach yourself emotionally and energetically from your perceived twin and this going to take some deep inner work on your part. I offer sessions doing this work as I’ve been through the process myself, if you are interested click here.
Some simple ways to start are by getting rid of anything that reminds you of them, and this is where the emotional work is so important because you may have parts of you that are not ready to let go and you’ll need to work through these. A good way to do this is to un-blend from that particular emotion as you would do in any mindfulness practice so see it as separate from yourself then get curious with it. What does it want you to know or understand about itself? Start to really inner-stand all its needs and wants. Perhaps what you think is a longing for an ex-partner may be a lot deeper and may lead to turning some deep pain into power.
With attachment trauma, this is probably related to your inner child and you will we have to go through the process of reparenting this aspect of yourself again this is something I offer in sessions.
When we are dealing with situations where you have been targeted on the astral realm the normal route in is through your own subconscious wounds as astral parasites can sometimes know our blind spots better than we do. So the more you can work on bringing light to your shadow and integrate, the more you will starve these beings and no longer be food for them.
It’s a little bit of a different perspective that I bring to the popular teaching that perhaps that separation is attachment trauma and trauma bonding, it’s something to look into and it’s something I wish someone would have pointed out to my past self.
Humaste (The Human in me, Honours the Human in You)
Anastasia
